Advent

This Advent, unlike any other in our lifetime, we find ourselves betwixt and between.

We are betwixt and between Iife as we knew it pre-COVID-19, and life as we hope to know it post vaccine. We are betwixt and between living with the cautions that advise us to not move about, to not travel, and to not gather, and living with the freedom to move about, to travel, and to gather.

For most of us this period of being betwixt and between has proven to be painful. It has meant waiting in the midst of days that are chaotic, disordered and unpredictable. We are, after all, creatures of habit and of comfort. We order our daily agendas in ways that protect us from the unknown. We program our GPS in order to avoid the risks of wandering off the beaten path. We surround ourselves with people who make us feel safe. We create for ourselves the illusion of being in control, of ordering our lives to be predictable. But nothing amazing or wonderful generally emerges from business as usual.

Waiting, while painful, can also bring newness-new perspectives, new ideas, and new ways of being. Consider the new perspectives we’ve gained about ourselves, about each other, and about society over the past year. Consider the new ideas that have been born in medicine, in science, and in technology. Consider the new ways of being students, teachers, workers, advocates, neighbors, community and church that have taken place since the pandemic began.

Waiting and the newness that comes as a result is what Advent is all about. In Advent, we are betwixt and between the coming of Christ in history and the coming of Christ at the end of time. In Advent, we are betwixt and between the season of Ordinary Time and the season of Christmas. While much of society would prefer to rush into Christmas, the Church encourages us to embrace the waiting so that we can experience newness-new perspectives, new ideas, and new ways of being. We are called to wait this Advent and to endure the pandemic as people of hope, to trust that all times and seasons are in the hands of a God who loves us more than we can imagine.

Holy Week Amidst Covid-19

Despite the coronavirus, Holy Week has come. While each Holy Week is unique, this one will be far different from any we’ve known before. We will not be gathering as a community for the Triduum at the church. Instead, most of us will watch these sacred liturgies from the comforts of our own homes, surrounded by our immediate families. This experience echoes that of our ancestors who, before churches were erected, gathered in homes to hear God’s Word and to celebrate the sacred meal. In a sense, we have been forced to return to a time that was fittingly called “The Domestic Church.”

Families who watch this year’s Holy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday liturgies will not see the elaborate ceremonies common to the Triduum. Vatican directives have simplified these celebrations, stripping them of much of their decorated splendor. Many of the rituals such as the washing of the feet have been omitted. The rites of initiation and most of their accompanying symbols will be absent. Even so, the symbols and rituals that normally hold pride of place during the Triduum can still be performed by families at home. Here are a few ideas.

Holy Thursday – Mass of the Lord’s Supper

On this night, the Church commemorates the institution of the Holy Eucharist and the Lord’s command to be charitable. At home, families can imitate the intimacy that Jesus shared with his disciples at supper by breaking bread together. You can wash each other’s feet as a sign of love, as Jesus did.

Good Friday – Stations of the Cross

To contemplate the passion of Jesus families can pray the Stations of the Cross on Good Friday. Many and various stations written around particular themes can be found online. Since this devotion traces the steps of Jesus on the road to his crucifixion and is usually prayed by moving from place to place, you are encouraged to make the stations a spiritual pilgrimage by walking as you pray.

Good Friday -- Celebration of the Passion of the Lord

The high points in this liturgy consist of the proclamation of the passion according to John, the extended intercessions and the veneration of the cross. Families can read John’s Gospel together at home: John 18:1-19:42. You can discuss how the passion according to John differs from the other gospel writers. You can talk about the love that is revealed by the death of Jesus. You can pray for your needs and for the needs of others by speaking the prayers aloud or by writing them down on a piece of paper and placing them in a bowl or basket near a lighted candle. You can take a cross or crucifix and venerate it with a touch or a kiss.

Holy Saturday-The Easter Vigil

This night is the high point of the liturgical year! It typically begins after nightfall with a blazing fire. The Vatican has omitted the fire this year, but in the home families can light candles as a reminder that Jesus is the light of the world. This is a night for remembering the presence of God throughout salvation history, which is why Scripture passages such as the story of creation, the sacrifice of Isaac and the exodus are proclaimed. In reflecting on these texts, you could discuss or even create a timeline portraying the experiences when you most felt God’s presence.

This is a night to celebrate baptism, and though baptisms will not take place at this year’s Easter Vigil, there are other ways families can honor the first sacrament. Gather mementos from each person’s baptism: a baptismal certificate, baptismal clothing, the baptismal candle, pictures, and/or religious articles. Tell the story of your children’s baptisms. Connect with your godparents via skype or facetime. Renew your baptismal promises. Discuss what it means to be part of a faith community. Share what it means to be a child of God. Give thanks for the gift of water and for the gift of baptism. Bless one another with water!

This Holy Week, we all have an opportunity to create new rituals and new traditions. Our faith, after all, isn’t confined to the church. It begins at home and is meant to be lived in the world.

St. Thomas Aquinas will be live streaming the events of Holy Thursday, Good Friday, Holy Saturday and Easter Sunday. See the website or t